S2: Who Is Calling the Shots? (When Making Others Happy Is Making You Miserable)
When Making Others Happy Is Making You Miserable (Karen Ehman)
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23m
Many of us people-please due to our personality makeup. However, sometimes the “disease to please” rears its annoying head because we get to a place where we allow others to fill a role in our lives they were never meant to occupy. We need to stop placing people in the place of God, and seek to obey him instead of humans.
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