There are four traps of people pleasing: fear of rejection, fear of disappointing people, the need to manage perceptions, and the need for approval. When you alter your Best Yes decision because you're too afraid to disappoint someone, it just wears you out. Saying yes all the time won't make you Wonder Woman. It will make you a worn-out woman.
Paul links the purpose of wisdom directly to our relationship with Christ. How might it change the way you approach your decisions if the first question you asked was not, “How can I choose what’s best in this situation?” but, “How can I choose Christ in this situation and get to know Him better?...
