S4: Explore the Iceberg (Emotionally Healthy Relationships)
Emotionally Healthy Relationships Expanded Edition
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Humans are like icebergs: 10 percent is above the surface and visible; 90 percent is below the surface and invisible. When we Explore the Iceberg, we learn 1) unprocessed emotions don't die 2) healthy community requires that people know themselves and 3) feelings help us discern God's voice.
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