S1: Take Your Community Temperature Reading (Emotionally Healthy Relationships)
Emotionally Healthy Relationships Expanded Edition
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30m
Community Temperature Reading is the building block for the rest of the relationship skills that follow. Use it to discover and express your God-given voice and to build healthy relationships with others. It's about brief sharing in five categories: 1) Express appreciations 2) Use puzzles to avoid negative assumptions 3) Lodge complaints by saying "I notice" and suggest solutions by saying "I prefer" 4) Provide new information and 5) Share your hopes and wishes.
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