Feeling the pain is the first step toward healing the pain. To progress toward healing, we must make some holy exchanges. We want God to take away our pain; God wants to develop our character. We want God to make our circumstances better for our own version of good; God wants to take our healing to help others. We want to quickly get out of our situation; God wants us to produce long-term fruit in our situation. We want to know all the reasons; God wants us to know Him more and develop deeper trust.