Shame occurs when, because you've been hurt by others in the past, you armor-up, vowing, "That's never going to happen to me again!" As a result, shame produces fear, suspicion, and isolation. When it comes to loving the people in your orbit that you might find a "little creepy," instead of judging them, consider where they've come from and what they've been through. You just might be in a position to *catch people on the bounce.*