The more you become unoffendable, the more you will be willing to forgive people as a lifestyle. Viewing people through the lens of forgiveness means seeing them in the way that God sees us.
Being unoffendable involves constantly reminding ourselves that we don’t deserve God’s forgiveness—and yet God has chosen to forgive us anyway. Gratitude and anger cannot coexist. Neither can thankfulness and anger. It’s either one or the other, and we have to choose.