Instead of shaming ourselves for trust issues or feeling ridiculous, we need to recognize that our trust issues have roots in reality. Trust requires two crucial factors: safety and connection.

These red flags indicate they don't value trust in a relationship: Incongruity, Inconsistency, Insincerity, Self-Centeredness, Insecurity, Immaturity, Immorality, Insubordination, Incompetence, Irresponsibility, Inflated Sense of Self.

Kintsugi, the Japanase art of repair, is the metaphor for this session. Every break or rip is unique. So, every repair needs to be unique. More severe breaks will require more time for the repair. And repentance must be present in order for the repair process to work.

If I believe that God allows harsh realities for no good reason, I will want to try to control my circumstances rather than trust His plan. Sometimes we would rather be in control than be fully obedient. Especially if that obedience
seems risky.

Though we will face unkindness and unfaithfulness in people, hope is not lost because God is kind. God is faithful. The quicker I intentionally recall God’s faithfulness in my past, the less I panic and suffer from fear of the future.

Discernment is what fills in the gaps between the facts so we can make more informed decisions. There is a big difference between a gut feeling and authentic discernment from the Holy Spirit. Walking by the Spirit, being led by the Spirit, and keeping in step with the Spirit mean you are position...